Bebe Rexha has decided to crowdsource dating and the internet is fully seated. The singer posted on X on Wednesday, December 17, calling on her fanbase to help her find a boyfriend and future “baby daddy” and she did not keep it vague.

“Rexhars, You Have a Mission”

Rexha opened with a straight-up assignment for her followers: “Rexhars. You have a mission. Find me a baby daddy.” She then told fans to send her their best options, turning her timeline into a matchmaking thread in seconds.

Her Checklist is Very Specific

Rexha laid out what she wants and what she does not want. On looks, she said she is fine with someone who is a “6 or 7” because personality matters more to her.

Height is a preference, not a dealbreaker, but she said she wants someone taller than she is. She put the minimum at 5’8.

Then came the money talk. Rexha said her ideal partner must be successful and not a “moocher.” She added that she wants someone “richer than me or equal” and made it clear she does not want to pay for a man. She also said she is not looking for a 50/50 setup.

To round it out, she listed character traits that matter to her: good morals, smart, driven and a strong personality.

Fans Started Pitching Candidates Fast

Once the post landed, replies rolled in with suggestions and jokes. One fan even offered up their dad, and Rexha replied with a quick “Yes,” which only pushed the thread further into viral territory.

Why the Joke Hits Harder Than it Looks

The post is playful, but it also lands in a real place. Rexha has previously spoken about infertility linked to PCOS. She has also shared that a pregnancy “didn’t work out,” which adds context to why people are reacting so strongly to the “baby daddy” wording, even when it is delivered with humour.

Either way, she has set the brief and the internet is doing what it does best: turning someone’s personal life into a public group project.